Had to go into work an hour early, no walk today, and a nice light rain!
Slept well and warm under the blankets! (itch free of course!)
After work was very tired, so just lazing around tonight.
Numbness the same. Feel like I am walking around in snow boots all the time, even barefooted.
Tastes better, mouth not tender, but tummy being fickle about what and how much I eat.
Had chocolate a brownie today and it tasted GOOD!
Legs were tired this morning, not sure if related to the cramping I get, calf, hamstring, hands all seem susceptible.
I do ultrasound of peoples hearts. The heart is a scary thing for most people as it is key to life.
Many people come to me with fear and concern. I work very hard to make people comfortable and be at ease. It is kind of odd as I got the cancer I found myself in the same kind situation my patients are in.
It hasn’t caused me to change much, as I find all the skills and things I have developed to help them, are pretty much what would work on me.
I think the unknown is more fearful for people. Knowledge seems to help most people overcome fear.
Sometimes people have a narrow panicked perspective when they hear they might have a problem with their heart. Helping them to see things on a broader level seems to help them as well.
It helps people know that someone cares about them. It makes life less scary and lonely. I am pretty good an connecting with people (mostly because i like people) and letting them know I care and not just “doing my job”.
I have found my personal prayers have become more intimate. I have always understood that life can be taken at anytime. It just kind of shocks you a bit when you realize how much time you may not have left.
It’s not so much that my life may end that bothers me, but that the people I leave behind are taken care of.
It’s what you did with the time you had that matters or is the measure of a person.
I still am aware of wasted time in my life.
I appreciate “get well” cards more than I used to.
I REALLY appreciate a nice warm nights sleep.
If I am cured, I intend to make a few changes I had been planning on anyway, just gonna move em up on the priority list a lot farther.
I find that I am tired in the evening and focused on mitigating things like fatigue, rash itch, other side effects of the chemo and appointments, I am not really very focused at this point as to what my future plans are to be.
Probably the biggest surprise for me has been that it’s not the side effects of the cancer that are so bad, its the side effects of the chemo that have put my life in turmoil.
I mean this cancer could have killed me pretty quickly left untreated and it would have been painful. But after the first treatment of chemo I had no more symptoms from the cancer, the rash, the taste, the numbness, the messed up digestive system, the fatigue, the packing the pump around for a week, and other things are all the chemo.
Die if you don’t do the chemo, suffer for months if you do. Kind of odd.
Sometimes in life when things go bad your less than good friends leave you. I have not had that happen yet.
My wife is a dream come true. (I always knew that, but she demonstrated it again through all of this.)
I have been helped by many people at work, people I don’t know, my family and friends.
I am pretty sure there have been things done to help me, by people that I will never know about. Makes you feel humbled.
I have felt the strength and comfort from the many prayers and encouragement so many have given. People that I didn’t even know knew my name, have stopped me, shared things and encouraged me.
It is very humbling to find out how many people care about you.
I have some very cherished memories from this journey.
Not that I would care to take this journey a second time, and I don’t think I would have chosen to take this one in the first place, but as with much of life, we often don’t get to choose our journeys.
I am in the “take each day at a time”, “one step at a time” or “one bite at a time” mode, nearing the end.
Barring any unforeseen events it looks like I will make it. Which is a good thing. But until my last chemo is over and I am recovered, I am not holding my breath.
Unfortunately it will be 6 months to a couple of years before I will know if I am truly cured. (my odds of a complete cure first time around are 80%.)
I am thinking maybe having a celebration dinner/party or something after I recover from my last chemo. I guess just surviving the chemo regiment is worthy of a celebration even though I won’t know for sure if I am cured.
I will not decide about planning anything, till I am recovered from the last chemo dose.
Well this weekend should be pretty good, weather calls for rainstorms which we sorely need and I very much enjoy.
Hope everyone had a great Friday and also have a great weekend!